Posts Tagged ‘Personal Development’

{Life Lessons} Part 2: Live, Love, Do

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

Our dear friend Jerry was going to be 75 on the 4th of July.  What an amazing day for a birthday…just imagine the celebrating he did each year.  If you knew him, you would say…It’s so fitting he was born on this day.

He LOVED life
He LOVED what he did for a living {he would never say it was a job}
He LOVED to travel
He LOVED his family
HE LOVED to play and have fun

He didn’t get caught up in the day to day mumbo jumbo…he LIVED!

LESSON TWO: LIVE like you’ve never lived before

How do you live your life?  Constantly scheduled and not taking time out with your family and friends…always saying…I’m too busy…I don’t have enough time?

Do you like what you do?  Are you so busy making excuses why you can’t do this or that…but DO YOU LIKE WHAT YOU DO?  That is the big question.

If you spend the majority of your time working – you better like what you do…don’t you think?

So there were two instances this weekend where this came up for me…the FIRST time, I was reading a blog post by Emily Ley of Emily Ley Creative.  She said something in her video that really hit home for me.

{If you’re not excited about what you’re doing ~ nobody will be}
{If you’re not producing from the heart ~ it will be obvious}

Then she asked a couple of questions…

{What fires you up?}
{What makes you get out of bed each morning excited?}

Interesting statements and questions that really made me think…

The SECOND time was listening to Jerry’s family and friends talk about Jerry and how he LIVED and LOVED…

So the question for me…do I love what I do?

Yes – I absolutely LOVE events.  I love to dream about them and create them.  Am I using my creativity to it’s fullest potential…YES for the events that I’m doing…but I want more…I want to do more and utilize my creativity to it’s fullest capacity.  I’m growing and evolving and that means my creative expression is too.

If I’m going to be honest ~ I would say…I need to have more fun…be more spontaneous…do things…remember to stop and smell the flowers…listen to the birds chirp in the morning.  Just sit and be.

So what fires me up?  FAMILY, FRIENDS, EVENTS, DESIGN

I bought a plaque this weekend that is sitting on our mantle and the saying sums it up…

Happiness Is Not A Destination
It Is A Way Of Life

My promise to myself…LIVE like I’ve never lived before, LOVE like I’ve never loved before and DO like I’ve never done before.

What’s your promise?

Caryl

 

{Life Lessons} How Many Faces Do You Have?

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

A very dear friend of the family passed away recently and today was the celebration of his life.

At his celebration, I was {re-introduced} to a couple of very important concepts. It’s something that you know – but I think getting caught up in life…one forgets.

LESSON ONE: He had just ONE face

Did you know that the majority of people out there in the world have many different faces/personalities they show different people?

Face #1: You show to friends
Face #2: You show to your family
Face #3: You show to strangers
Face #4: You show to yourself

It takes a very special and unique person to only have ONE face. It’s the same face that they show to everyone they see, meet, know and love.

Why is it that you can be so nice to a perfect stranger, yet you might snap at your sister? Are you not being your true authentic self when you are talking to the stranger or sister?

Or you put on that happy face when you’re talking to a client, but when someone on your team walks in the door, you don’t say hello?

Do you have different faces for different situations? Yes, there are times when you need to be stern or happy or angry – but shouldn’t everyone receive the same recognition from you?

I’m not saying that you can’t be angry or happy…I’m saying be your true self to everyone.

If you feel that you are a loving person…be that loving person everyday to everyone with honesty and sincerity.

Our friend that past away – he only had one face. You knew where you stood with him…he was genuine…he was authentic…he was sincere….he was honest.

I want to have just one face that everyone sees – strangers, friends, families and me.  I want to be transparent.

How many faces do you have?

Caryl

 

PS: Tomorrow – LESSON TWO…it hit me like a ton of bricks!

 

Risky or Status Quo ~ Which are you?

Monday, January 10th, 2011

As an events planner – sometimes you fall back into doing the same thing over and over…

Have you heard the saying ~ if it’s not broken…don’t fix it?

Do you fall into this category?

If you do something new that has never been done before (or at least you haven’t done it before) are you really nervous and scared?

Did you know that being scared is a really good thing?  It means that you are out of your comfort zone and are growing.

Here are some tips from Vivanista blog- they help non-profits and foundations with fundraising.  They offered some excellent tips to event planners on taking risks.

1) Reinvent Tradition: Create a new tradition! As long as the newly created tradition underscores the goals and objectives of the event and speaks to the brand and culture – the directions and volume are unlimited: Quirky, cleaver, brazen, indulgent.  Breaking free of repetition and instigating original traditions can do spectacular things to differentiate activate, and deepen your event and brand.

2) Break Something Unbroken: Just because something is working doesn’t mean it can’t benefit from disassembly and examination in order to work infinitely better.  We tend to leave these perceived functional elements alone, especially during times of economic unrest (or just too busy getting the work done).

3) Invite a Little Well-Crafted Controversy: The key here is small, calculated, and executed with great skill and thoughtfulness.  Simply by refusing to capitulate to the lowest common denominator keynote or shy away from critical (yet touchy) content, or perhaps by brining competitors to the table with grace and integrity, you can ruffle just enough feathers to increase attendance in the right target market and/or garner admiring attention from media.  Make your controversy work for you – it should be inspired by and tied to your goals and objectives.

4) Navigate by Gut: Event professionals tent to be hardwired as control-driven, detail-oriented leaders.  However, we also have the innate ability to work well collaboratively, so we often must concede concepts and changes if challenged by committees waving analytics.  Bit there is a time and place to fight for factually unproven concepts and even (when given authority) attempt unilateral decisions just because you believe deeply in something.

5) Give Something Great that “Failed” a Second (or Third or Fourth) Change: The one caveat here is that you need to believe this element has value and potential and you need to be willing and able to convince other stakeholders.  Some of the best ideas just need some redesign – or the time and the opportunity to evolve.

So here is my challenge to you…take a little risk.  Start off small and see where that take you.

These tips were originally posted on the Eventbrite blog.

~Caryl

Mountain Re”treat” in Squaw Valley

Friday, September 4th, 2009

I recently visited Squaw Valley Lodge  for the annual Brews, Jazz and Funk Fest in August (event was held in the Village at Squaw) that benefitted the Humane Society of  Truckee and Tahoe.  Rachel Lyons, sales coordinator for Squaw Valley Lodge took me on a great tour of the hotel.   The Lodge gives a small ski-town family feel to anyone who visits.  While staying there, I felt like I was part of the family.  The view of the mountains is breathtaking.  Rachel and I had a great conversation about holding more weddings at this venue.  A natural place to take wedding photos for sure!  The tennis courts give this amazing, spacious feel to the hotel.

Tennis with a view

Tennis with a view

Squaw Valley Lodge has a great pool and barbeque area perfect for anyone. P8141348 I would love to see more meetings held here-  I think it is a perfect place for a team-building experience- the ropes course is right across the way!  Only note to self- each room is decorated differently so we would be sure to work closely with Rachel- who knows this place inside and out- to make sure each of our guests were in the appropriate “personalized” rooms.  Make sure you visit this place- walking distance to the village- right under the cable ride to High Camp.  An outdoor experience sure to please in any season.  Thanks to Rachel and to Squaw Valley Lodge Staff for your hospitality! Also, I’m giving a shout out to the wonderful folks at Uncorked at Squaw Valley- a FABULOUS wine bar in the village!  I will definitely be back!P8141341

Welcome to the iROAR blog

Monday, April 13th, 2009

ROAR events group is a boutique event-marketing agency that specializes in the attendee experience.  iROAR will definitely have the events element to it, but more about what I’m passionate about.  So you might ask – what are my passions…well let me tell you. 

Fitness (especially for roar warriors)
Travel
Nutrition (especially for road warriors)
Inspirational Quotes
Reading
Thought Leaders
Hotels (of course :) )
Cool Gadgets & Technology
Office Supplies (I know – that one is a bit bizarre – but I dig them, especially cool ones)
Personal Development – being the best that you can be

People have called me their “go-to girl” when they are trying to find something.  I have the innate ability to uncover just about anything.  My goal is to be that for all of you that read this blog.  If you ever need to find something – chances are it’s probably here and I’m just an email away.

I have feeling this blog is going to morph into something amazing!!  

I hope you enjoy it.